There’s two moments when I feel discomfort: when I’m doing something I’m NOT supposed to do, and when I’m doing something I AM supposed to do. The first moment for me has meant I was stuck dating the wrong person, hanging out in the wrong group of people, or doing something I know I have … More It’s Okay to Be Uncomfortable, It Means You’re Growing.
True love knows no boundaries. It makes us look inside ourselves and discover our deepest, darkest fears. It makes us question our sanity, and question ourselves. Am I doing the right thing? Am I making the right choice? Why does this person like me? What do they see in me, and why can’t I see … More Sabotage and Love
I used to be embarrassed over absolutely everything. If you think I’m being dramatic, ask any boy that talked to me during my teenage years how red-faced I was during our conversations. I was uncomfortable, distressed, and awkward as all get-out. It took multiple embarrassing moments, failed relationships, and low points for me to realize: … More Date The Girl Who Embarrasses Herself
I have a confession; I’m an introvert. You wouldn’t know it by observing me, because when I’m around other people, I have a very convincing people-person-demeanor. I’ve been able to finagle my way into jobs made for much more personable people; from dancing at kid’s parties, singing in bars, and working in customer service, to … More Are You An Introvert, Or Are You Just Depressed?
There are so many reasons you won’t choose me; excuses really, and I’ve heard them all. And while they are not all entirely bullshit, they are reasons why we can’t be together. And if that’s not a reason enough for you to step up and show me that you want me, then I’m choosing me … More If You Won’t Choose Me, Then I Will.
I’ll always remember the impression this boy once made on me. He may not have been the most gorgeous guy my eyes have ever laid upon, but he was the most remarkable. His unusual, quirky smile was like a gateway into his welcoming and sincere heart. His presence was inviting, and his conversation intriguing. I … More To The Girl Who Broke His Heart.
I was never one to pray, but the day you entered my life I got down on my knees and begged that this time would be different. I don’t know exactly who I was speaking to, but I got down, clasped my hands together, and spoke out loud to who ever was listening. “Please; I … More I Stopped Believing in Him, So I Could Start Believing in You.
You’re allowed to be petty. No matter how trivial a problem may seem, you’re allowed to make a mountain out of a mole hill. You’re allowed to get angry over the smallest inconvenience in your life and take it out on the person who caused that inconvenience. You’re allowed to be unapologetically nasty. You’re allowed … More You’re Allowed To Be Petty
You couldn’t possibly have feelings for me. You never waited three days to call me, or told me that you would meet me for dinner, only to blow me off at the last possible second. Our text exchange isn’t filled with empty promises, or just a string of one-sided messages where I try to make … More I’m Confused, Do You Like Me?
What am I doing wrong? It’s a question I hear asked often, and a question I used to ask myself pretty frequently. In relationships, it’s easy to think you’re not suitable when your significant other is scared of you. When you feel like you’re pushing them away, you reflect and try to work on the … More This is Why You’re Scaring Him Away