There’s two moments when I feel discomfort: when I’m doing something I’m NOT supposed to do, and when I’m doing something I AM supposed to do. The first moment for me has meant I was stuck dating the wrong person, hanging out in the wrong group of people, or doing something I know I have … More It’s Okay to Be Uncomfortable, It Means You’re Growing.
“Nice knowing you.” It’s often a statement made in anger; made when we have no options left; made when our hearts are full of sadness, and we have nothing left to do but say goodbye. But what happens when we’ve had time to reflect on what brought us to that point? What happens after those … More Nice Knowing You.
It’s Mother’s Day, 2018. Your 25-year-old self is in a place of anxious wonder. Anxiously awaiting your big move into your new apartment near New York City. The apartment where your room will be the size of a small walk-in closet, but you don’t even care because it’s finally a space to call home. You … More Note To Self (Open on Mother’s Day 2019)
There are so many reasons you won’t choose me; excuses really, and I’ve heard them all. And while they are not all entirely bullshit, they are reasons why we can’t be together. And if that’s not a reason enough for you to step up and show me that you want me, then I’m choosing me … More If You Won’t Choose Me, Then I Will.
Today I was going to write the common misconceptions about Scorpios, but today, I wrote this. I needed to be real and honest with myself and find a little clarity, and I’m proud of what I found as a result. It’s total raw, unfiltered emotion, so all I can say is brace yourself lol. I hope you enjoy it. ❤ love you all. … More I Want To Love You, But This Is What’s Holding Me Back.
As a New Year approaches, many of us are looking for a way to live our best life in 2018. I, as per usual, have been reflecting on the past year, and am left asking myself, “What happened in 2017 that will prepare me for yet another 365 days of fleeting minutes, endless workloads, tireless … More What’s That Smell?
What am I doing wrong? It’s a question I hear asked often, and a question I used to ask myself pretty frequently. In relationships, it’s easy to think you’re not suitable when your significant other is scared of you. When you feel like you’re pushing them away, you reflect and try to work on the … More This is Why You’re Scaring Him Away
I’m not one to judge a book by its cover, but your cover is the only thing you want people to see. When you placed yourself in the palm of my hand, how was I supposed to slip inside your pages and immerse myself in the haunting, complex story that you so obviously hold, and … More The Sad Truth About Getting Over Someone You Never Even Had the Chance to Love
Chances are if something doesn’t feel right in your relationship, there’s a pretty good reason. If you are being manipulated, you can begin to second guess yourself, without even realizing why. Instead of second guessing what you are doing wrong in your relationship, you might want to make sure you are actually in the wrong … More 8 Red Flags Your Boyfriend is Micro-Manipulating You
Hi friends, This is a little, out-of-the-ordinary blog post to announce the arrival of my new poetry book, (You Broke Me) Open, available on Amazon (Kindle and print), iBooks, and as a PDF. The link to purchase my book is in the menu at the top of the page or click right here: http://thoughtcatalog.com/book/you-broke-me-open/ In case you are interested … More My Poetry Book is Here!